Choose marriage
The children of family of past Tibet noble, the boy arrived 16 years old, when the girl comes 14 years old 15 years old, parents begin to consider their marriage, make choice of matchs marriageObject. After wanting to pick the girl that several as familial as oneself positions comparative or man silently for children above all, it is commonly first accreditation is familial the Jiang Zun in (steward namely) the delegate that serves as host, the damask on the belt goes before the gift such as silver of silken, Tibet, food and hada already choose decides a certain familial talk about a marriage, request those who tell children of domestic government office to belong to photograph and element, if its are familial,agree to await choose marriage, meet very tell children readily belong to photograph and element. If do not agree, they can have decided good marriage with children or do not wish to let children prematurelyMarryWait for the origin that it is manage to politely decline. When Jiang Zun (chamberlain) acquire each other after belonging to photograph and element, familial should ask dignitary augur, look with whose become attached to appropriate.
Propose and be engaged
Classics dignitary choose is decided with who after become attached to, by familial inside the big betrothal gifts on the brother with highest grade or uncle belt andDetailed list, head for the familial seek a marriage alliance that choose decides. After negotiate of give sb a present, ask dignitary augur again, choose goes outBe engagedAuspicious day.
Be engaged this day, the man should send the woman the home in old little honour low each a hada and rich and generous gift, the woman should prepare tea wine meal to wait, great kindness is xenial. Bilateral delegate enters main hall ordinal into hind, the " on master home end cuts Ma " to respect tea wine. Lovemaking home is displayed on gift, particularly homeward mother serves a " to help allusion " , suckle money " with the " that will foster a daughter as the mother. Later, in duplicate affiance is put in tall foot dish inside, recite loudly by the witness, another witness checks seriously. Read aloud finish, the witness imprints two home build in public go up in marriage book, give earnestly respectively by the woman and man delegate next father of the other side, then two parents display hada to the witness, express gratitude. Hold be engagedCeremonyWhen, young men and women notAttend, just family is attended. After the ceremony ends, guest of woman home fete, happy get-together a day; When dusk man family leaves, woman family displays a hada to every guest.
HoldBridal
Man home asks astral photograph Shi Bo to calculate lucky day in order to decide wedding day (Tibetan language " reads aloud Zi " ) . Hold the head of spousal one day, it is good with bag of silks and satins that man group person acts the role of a beautiful dress and eye acts the role of a beautiful dress and eye, send in woman home, let
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